Awwww, they probably DO think they're freaks. I bet they're sort of tolerant of Fraser's freakiness, just like the Rays are at the beginning or like anybody is with their weird old relatives. But, oh, I bet they are weirded out by Ray, yeah. Imagine! Their mom's crazy ex; a guy their dad doesn't really like; their uncle Ben's boyfriend; loud and weird and goofy sense of humor and says things that sound stupid sometimes and doesn't seem ever comfortable around them at all. Aww, Ray.