oh, vague and uncertain memories

"To lose one parent, Mr Worthing, may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness."

Okay, so some of the comments in cesperanza's last entry have reminded me of this conversation from #discourse from, like, a year ago, where we were talking about Oscar Wilde and then mentioning the above quote in particular and cruelly applying it to Fraser -- except I don't remember anything else about the conversation, or even who was involved. Was this the same time Nifra was going on about a courting story? I have no idea. Do any of you know what I'm talking about?